#1: You keep waiting for the perfect moment.
A lot of guys think that to attract a high quality woman and relationship, they need to be “ready” first.
Once they have the perfect job title, make a certain amount of money, have their dream car or finally put in enough hours in the gym so that they’re jacked.
They say, “I’m working too much, I don't have enough time. Once I have more time then I will be ready to find someone and settle down.”
The truth is that if you are a professional or entrepreneur, you are always going to be working long hours. And you know that, don’t you? We all know you’re not just going to wake up one day and stop working, right?
There never ends up being a perfect moment, so the love life gets neglected and put on hold till “one day,” which might never happen.
The day that it could happen is the day you decide to make it happen. To talk to that girl you sometimes see in your neighborhood, to take her out on a date, and to be a responsive and decisive man that women want.
#2. You aren’t willing to make a change.
We humans are creatures of habit. We like to stay on the same schedule and don't like to change it too much, unless it’s something we know will be guaranteed fun and low risk.
So guys will end up spending their spare time the same way, for years. After work you go hang out with the boys, playing video games or just Netflix and chilling. You’re tired from working all day, so you don’t want to get out of your comfort zone and make a new habit.
So your dating life ends up being just another random guy on a dating app some girl overlooks, but yet you hate that you are waking up alone every day. You’re frustrated, you want to build a connection with someone, and you want to do it all without changing or learning a thing about it.
That’s the definition of Insanity – doing the same thing over and over expecting a different result.
#3. You feel unworthy of being with your dream woman.
Is perfection really what women are looking for?
Have you ever seen an ok looking guy without a bunch of money with a great girl before? You think to yourself – hold on – not rich, not a supermodel, what’s he got that I haven’t?
The truth is that women don't want the perfect guy. They want a guy who is perfectly fine with himself.
So guys will say, “She won’t like me. I’m not funny, I’m not good looking, and I can’t be with her. She’s way out of my league.”
This is a huge lower self-belief that causes men to put off improving this area of their life. If a man thinks they are not good enough to be with the women they want to be with, he will wait till the perfect moment somehow lands in his lap.
This would be like getting introduced to a woman from a friend of a friend, hoping that you guys will hit it off, instead of being a creator. You could just spark up a conversation with the woman next to you in line at Starbucks. You never know what could happen if you just introduced yourself, instead of letting her walk away and never see her again.
The bottom line is that life is short. Stop waiting for the perfect opportunity and just do it. The moment will never be perfect. If you don't know how to meet and attract your ideal woman, message me and I'll be your Men’s Dating Coach in Orange County, CA. We will not be waiting for things to be perfect. We will just do, and execute!